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When we invest time in the activity of business networking / referral networking, it’s important that we give some thought to exactly what we want to achieve as a result of that investment.  Of course, the obvious goal is to gain referrals.  However, there are some things we can aim for that can provide us with a far greater opportunity than simply receiving a referral for a specific piece of work.

In particular, I was thinking about the act of collaboration.   Is it possible that we could take some of the referral partners that we’ve built great relationships with (and with whom we exchange referrals) and then collaborate with them to create something of even greater value?

I think so.  And it’s something that I would encourage you to do, as well.

For example, I’ve been asked to speak at a seminar on the 8th June which is being held at Langstone Technology Park.  It’s called ‘Web Chemistry‘ and it’s being organised by Raglan Tribe of Mindsheet Ltd and Mark Edmunds of ShootingBusiness.com.

I had the pleasure of meeting Raglan when I started the Fortress Fareham Chapter of BNI and I met Mark when I started the Uplands Eastleigh Chapter and they both became members of BNI after seeing the advantages.  As their businesses are related, I introduced them and they’ve worked together in several ways since that time.  In fact, I’ve worked with both of them, as well, and we’ve also become good friends.

The tag line for Web Chemistry is;

Discover how to secure High Value Clients online for your services ……… Even While You Sleep!

There are 6 experts speaking at the seminar, including Raglan, Mark and myself.  The others involved are Roger Lamb of Action Coach, John Pemberton of the Disc Directory /Working Feedback and James Potter, the LinkedIn Man.

BNI has featured quite heavily in creating Web Chemistry.  Roger is also a member of the BNI core group, Knights Winchester and John is very ably represented at BNI by Russell Herd.  James is the only one without a direct connection to BNI, although, I believe that the rest of us met him through BNI.  Certainly that’s true for myself, Raglan, Mark and Roger.

Click on the image to find out more about Web Chemistry

The fact is, Web Chemistry wouldn’t have existed without the collaboration of a group of people in related businesses (that all met through networking) that have recognised an opportunity that only exists by working together.   And the potential that this kind of collaboration may produce is far greater than that provided through a typical referral – not that referrals aren’t very welcome, of course. 

So, could you create opportunities for yourself and your referral partners by collaborating in some way?   I suggest that you give it some serios thought.

In the meantime it’s worth taking a look at Web Chemistry, not only to see the result of this collaboration but you may also like to  “Discover how to secure High Value Clients online for your services ……… Even While You Sleep”.   Ssimply follow this link – but not before you take a quick look at this introductory video for Web Chemistry;

Once again, you can find out more about Web Chemistry Here.

Happy (and profitable) networking.

Steve Bimpson

This week is International Networking Week and, as has happened now for the last 5 years, BNI celebrate big time.

Here in n Hampshire in the UK, we celebrate with a ‘Big Breakfast’ where members from a number of Chapters get together to mark the occasion with a speed networking event.

This morning we had 116 people get together to network with one another and to start the process of building new relationships with new contacts, as well as meeting up with some old friends that we don’t see so often.  Plus, of course, we have a few visitors that come along just to see what goes on in BNI.

As in previous years, the event was a great success.  We’ve now got the process of managing the speed networking down to a fine art and we have a terrific formula that ensures that everyone gets to present their 60 second presentation to every other person in the room in small groups.

If you’re running a large event and would like to know how to go about it, get in touch and I’ll be happy to share it with you.

You might also like to check out Dr Ivan Misner’s video promoting International Networking Week in 2011.

For those of you familiar with Dr Ivan Misner, the founder of BNI, you may be familiar with his formula for developing profitable relationships;

V + C = P

Where V = Visibility, C = Credibility and P = Profitability.

The key thing to note, here, is that relationships don’t just happen, you have to work at them to develop them to the point where they become profitable.  It’s also worth noting that ‘profitable’, in this context, doesn’t necessarily relate to a monetary profit.  The important thing is that there should be a mutual benefit gained by both parties in the relationship.

Yes, you can apply this philosophy to any kind of relationship, not just a business networking relationship.  It applies equally to the mutual benefit gained through developing a relationship with your life partner, your children, business contacts or friends.  In fact, it applies equally to any type of relationship you can think of.

For me, a truly profitable business relationship is one where the parties involved are keen to refer one another to business opportunities.

This is referral networking.  You might think of a profit as obtaining a sale.  And there is value to this, but building that relationship to the stage where there is a desire to refer one another is the pinnacle that we should be aiming for.

I like to break down this relationship building process into smaller chunks to help me understand and grade the relationships that I have with different people.  And I think of these steps as the ‘rungs’ of a ‘ladder’ that I wish to climb – Hence, “7 Steps to a Profitable Relationship”.

It probably seems obvious to say this but I’m going to, anyway.

You have a different ‘ladder’ for each individual relationship that you have and you’re, almost certainly, on a different ‘rung’ of the ‘ladder’ with different people.

So, if you have relationships that you don’t think are bringing you the reward that you think they should be, whatever kind of reward that may be, understanding this philosophy will help you realise which ‘rung’ you’re on with those people and, more importantly, it will help you to identify what you need to do to move that relationship up the following steps to where you want it to be.

The first 3 steps on the ladder relate to building your Visibility.

Step 1

The first ‘rung’ on the ‘ladder’ is Awareness.  It’s that point in time when someone becomes aware of you – and it only happens once.  They say that you only have a few seconds to make a great first impression so this first step is quite important.  However, if you don’t quite make the first impression that you’d like to, all is not lost.

Building a relationship is a process and all processes take time.  You do have control over how long it may take because you can choose how much time and effort you put into building that particular relationship.

But, you shouldn’t be seen to be rushing it as that will send out the wrong message.

So, how do people become aware of you?  That can happen in a number of different ways and, as I’m relating this specifically to the process of business networking, I’m going to talk about the ways people may become aware of you from a business perspective.

This is not a definitive list of how people may become aware of you but it should give you the general idea.

• You may meet them in person either at a business networking meeting, a business meeting or socially.
• You may send them a piece of direct mail or an email.
• They may get referred to you.
• You may talk to them on the telephone.
• In the world of social media you may ‘connect’ with them through LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, Ecademy or any other of a plethora of social media platforms.
• They may contact you in response to an advert or other marketing activity.
• They may hear about you by reputation.

There are other ways that they may cross your path but the point is, this is the first time that they ever come across you and it’s the very first step towards building a profitable relationship.  In fact, this first step may involve them coming across you more than once.

Step 2

You get on to someone’s 2^nd ‘rung’ of the ladder when they develop a degree of Familiarity with you.   By familiarity, I mean that they at least recognise your name.  It’s entirely possible to get on to the familiarity step with someone simply because they come across you on more than one occasion.

For instance, the following could happen;

• You send a piece of direct mail to someone and it creates enough interest for them to read it and take note of it.
• Perhaps they may have a possible need for the product or service that you mentioned in your direct mail piece but they’re still doing their research.  So, you follow up with a further mailing.  Or
• You follow up with a telephone call or an email.
• Because of their interest in what you do they speak to a few colleagues or associates to see whether any of them know you – or know of you.  Perhaps one of them knows you quite well and endorses you.

Each of these steps represents another event that causes them to come across you again.  As a result, they start to develop that all important Familiarity.  You’re now on the 2^nd ‘rung’ of the ladder.

This is just for illustration but, hopefully, you get the point.

Now, it’s not essential that you have to actually speak to someone for you to move up to the second ‘rung’ on their ladder but you will have to speak to them if you have any aspirations, at all, to moving up to their 3^rd ‘rung’.

Of course, a face to face meeting is even better.

Having said that, I do know a number of people that build relationships using nothing more than social media and a telephone.  They simply don’t do face to face at all.  In fact, sometimes, they build relationships over long distances or internationally which makes it very difficult for a face to face meeting, in any case.   Maybe, it’s those occasions where face to face is very difficult that has led to this creative use of Social Media and a phone.  Sometimes, there’s just no alternative.

I must confess that, as a fan of face to face communication, I used to find it a little strange to think about building a relationship without meeting.  But some people have developed hugely profitable relationships without ever having met and I’ve made a point of learning as much as I can about Social Media Marketing to enable me to build strong relationships over long distances.

Step 3

The 3^rd ‘rung’ on the ladder is when people start to get to know & Like you.  In this instance, I’m going to work on the assumption that you’ve now met them in order to move up to that all important 3^rd step.  Of course, although we don’t want to appear to be rushing the development of the relationship, we do want to move it forward as soon as we can, and you may like to consider some of the following steps to help move you to that 3^rd ‘rung’;

• Meet for coffee.
• Meet for lunch.
• Give them something that they will value.  A report of some kind relating to some aspect of their business.  Or some useful information of another sort.
• Do them a favour.  The bigger, the better.
• Introduce them to someone who will be a great contact for them.
• Help them to overcome a particular challenge that they’re having.

Do you get the idea?

Remember.  Whatever you do, whatever you give, do so without expectation of anything in return.  Do it without attachment.  You see, if people think that you’re doing something simply to get something in return, they won’t see what you do as being sincere and they’re less likely to want to give to you, in return.

On the other hand, if you have no expectation of getting anything in return you will come across as being completely genuine and they will want to give back to you.  It’s the ‘Law of Reciprocity’ in action.

You see, it’s not just important for them to get to know you but, more importantly, they need to get to like you.  If they don’t like you, you’re highly unlikely to get on to that 3^rd ‘rung’ of the ladder.

So, you’ll only get on to the 3^rd step when they start to Know & Like you.

These are the 3 steps in a relationship that build your Visibility.  In the next part we’ll look at those steps involved in building your Credibility and, from there, moving you into Profitability.

See you next time.

Steve Bimpson

I’d like to tell you an interesting story that a fellow BNI member told recently.

John Crouch works for Crest Windows and Conservatories and is a fellow member of the Meon  Valley Flyers chapter of BNI.  During one of his 60 second presentations, he told the story of a lady who enquired about new, uPVC windows and doors.

The lady was new to the area and had, literally, just moved in to the house she had just bought.  The house had previously been let out and, although everything looked fine on the surface, once she’d moved in she became very aware that there had been quite a lot of poor quality work carried out that had been done, simply to make everything look good on the surface.  This included both electrical and plumbing work that was, actually, quite dangerous.

When John arrived, the lady was very upset, in tears, because of the problems she had discovered.  John felt for the lady, being on her own in an area where she didn’t know anyone.  He explained to her about BNI and that he knew a plumber and an electrician that she could rely on.  He asked if she would like him to get them to call her to get things put right and she said that she would really appreciate the introduction.

John decided that it wasn’t an appropriate time to talk about new windows and doors, so he made an appointment to go back a few days later.

When he returned, he was greeted with a hug.  His fellow BNI members had reacted promptly and, between them, they’d sorted out the electrical and plumbing issues and made sure that everything was safe.  The lady was very appreciative of Johns help and told him that she really felt that she could trust him.

As a consequence, even though she had originally planned to get 3 separate quotatins for the windows and doors, she told John that she had cancelled the other two companies and that he had got her business.  Even though he hadn’t even given her a quotation at that time.

How many people benetitted from this act of giving?

1. John gave referrals to two fellow members of BNI and they both benefitted from that, in terms of the business they received.
2. The lady in question benefitted from the fact that she had been put in touch with two completely reliable tradespeople who helped her resolve her problems quickly and professionally.
3. Johns’ act of giving also reflected on him.  Not only were his BNI colleagues very grateful for the referrals that he gave them but, more importantly, the lady he referred them to was so grateful for the help she received that she, spontaneously, decided that she would reward him the contract for her new windows and doors – without even talking to anyne else.

When we give, we activate the Law of Cause and Effect, as well as many other of the Universal Laws we’ve previously talked about.

In this story we can see that the act of giving these referrals naturally benefits the people that we give them to, but it also benefits the individual referred, in this case, our lady in distress.  But we should never forget that these acts also reflect on the giver.  In this instance, the consequence of that was revealed very quickly, indeed,  which is not what I would necessarily expect, but it will always reflect on the giver, in some way.

So, in answer to the question “How Many People Benefit When We Give?” we can clearly see that it’s not only the people on the receiving end but it’s the person doing the giving, as well.

The fact is, when we give to someone else, we also give to ourselves, as well.  When we come to understand this – and really do ‘get it’, why on earth wouldn’t we give all that we can give?

When it comes to networking, never forget that when you give to others, you’re also giving to yourself.

Steve Bimpson

Just in case you didn’t know, this week was International Networking Week and, yesterday, I attended a BNI “Big Breakfast” event which was held to celebrate the occasion.  The event was open to members of all of the BNI chapters in Hampshire in the UK, as well as, to their guests.

The goal of International Networking Week is to celebrate the key role that networking plays in the development and success of businesses across the world.   It’s the wish of Dr. Ivan Misner, the founder of BNI, that all members should reap the benefits of participating in this celebration of networking.

Rather than my trying to explain to you exactly what it’s all about, I thought that I’d let Dr Misner tell you himself;

Back to the “Big Breakfast”.

Well over 100 members and their visitors took advantage of the opportunity to experience Speed Networking the BNI way.  After Dr Misners’ introduction video, shown above,  attendees were split into small groups.  Each group had a facilitator and each member of the group was given a number.  Then, after everyone performed a 60 second presentation to their group, a simple formula was used which gave each individual the number of the next group they should move on to.

The system worked perfectly and, after a number of group changes (13 to be precise), interspersed with a break for breakfast and another for liquid refreshments, everyone got to deliver their 60 second presentation to everyone else.  And, of course, exchange business cards.

You couldn’t help but be impressed with how well the system worked.  The aim being to briefly meet everyone and get their business cards so that you can then follow up at a later date and start to build relationships with those people relevant to you.

I had the opportunity to talk to a number of people before they left and there was an overwhelming ‘thumbs up’ for the morning.  Everyone I spoke to talked about the fact that they had made some really good contacts and had thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience.  Despite the fact that delivering 14 x 60 second presentations had taken its toll, leaving many a little worn out – but still smiling.

Steve Bimpson